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Monday, August 21, 2006

Intermezzo...

Office, is where you meet people, interact and co-exists in a working environment. You can meet someone you like or maybe you have to work with a person who dislike you. What can you do about it? Trying too hard to make friend with someone who obviously doesn't share the same passion as you, can be a worthless effort. Suppose that someone in the office ask you for a favour, which you know can jeopardize your position. Two choices, if you do it, you have to make sure noone knows about it (except of course both of you) and do it right (there is no point on telling you what will happen if you do it wrongly, you can figure it out by yourself). If you don't do it, you may lose a friend. Tough choices, but that's life. You learn as you journey through it, hopefully the choices you make is the correct one. And if it doesn't, you need no turning back, carry on and let the past behind you.
Another issue: if you know your friend is doing something wrong, would you remind him? "A friend in need is a friend indeed". Does that ring a bell? Your friend maybe need you to tell him what's right and what's wrong. But if you're friend is a stubborn and rock-headed person then leave him... No, I'm just kidding. Let me give you an example, suppose your friend is having an affair. He/she already has a family and child. At this point, the only victim is the child. I know how the child would feel, because I've seen someone close to me who doesn't have a family as a whole. It would make him/her depressed knowing that something is wrong with his/her family. Now get back to the root of the problem. Why would you have an affair? In my opinion, it started as a miscommunication which is not cleared up. As this miscommunication goes on, there will be dissatisfaction which in turn make up a fight. Then the outcome of this fight is an AFFAIR. I always believe marriage is a sacred thing, you can do it only once in your life with your loved one. It is not just a bunch of "I DO"s in front of a pack crowd, but it is something more than that. It consists of friendship, understanding and sacrifice. The base of friendship is understanding, you have to build an understanding with someone before you become friends. As this friendship become stronger then you will sacrifice anything for your friend (giving up your life is an exception :D). The same thing apply for marriage. The key to a healthy and successfull marriage is communication. Always communicate with your partner because he/she is the closest person to you. Well, I am a married person (maybe not long enough to give you any advice) and I want to make my marriage a long lasting one because I love my wife and son very much. I hope all of you who already have a family feel the same way. Family is number one, the rest is just an addition.

PS: ManU won 5-1, but Chelsea also won :(

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